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I Just Want a Great Guy, Dammit!
There
Are High Maintenance Men Too
Divas can be fun to watch but difficult to
date. Regardless of how hot high maintenance women look, for
men, dealing with them is not worth the pain they cause. So
what is the difference between being very picky about what’s
around you and being impossibly high maintenance?
This questionable quality looks slightly different in men
than in women. High Maintenance Women are perfectly beautiful,
stylish and almost too good to be real. The problem is, they’re
like cartoon character versions of themselves - bigger than
life and very two-dimensional.
The world of a high maintenance person only has room for herself
and people who cater to her. She is rude to servers, demeaning
to clerks and superior to most other humans occupying her planet.
She will act the same way toward her guy until he bristles,
then she pulls back just enough to keep him happy enough to
spend more money on her. Check to see if you fit this description
and if you do, try to rein in your diva-like behaviors. But
this is only one half of the equation.
There are High Maintenance Men, too! These
guys can be just as picky about their style and looks as
any female. They make
a big deal about their newest leather jacket or their custom
tailored suit.
If they participate in a sport, they have absolutely every
type of gear and it comes in designer labels. High Maintenance
Men can be obsessive about their cars, which are either hyper-luxurious
or fast and sporty.
Don’t even think about drinking a latte inside his car. His
home is just as picture perfect, thanks to daily maid service.
Whether male or female, High Maintenance people share some
characteristic in common:
- Impatience
with anyone who does not instantly respond to his or her
demands
- Insistence
on always being right, regardless of the subject
- Never
accepts less than what they feel is owed to them
- Overly
preoccupied with other’s opinions of them
- Humor
that’s poorly disguised sarcasm designed to cut others
down
- Constantly
talking about themselves and their importance
- Never
gives a sincere compliment to others
- Never
wrong
If this sounds the guy you’re dating, then get ready to meet
his every need because he only meets your needs to the extent
that it makes him look good. Even the diamond bracelet he bought
for you isn’t as much about your delight as about showing it
off to his friends as “what a great guy he is.” If you realize
your guy’s a diva, cut the ties quickly before you get too
deeply involved.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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