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I Just Want a Great Guy, Dammit!
What
Are The Signs He Is Mr Right?
So you have met a new guy. But what are the
signs that he is Mr Right? How do you know if he is the one,
your soul mate, that you can be happy ever after with?
Intuition
Often you will know the moment you meet someone that there
is something special about them. It's that 'eyes meeting across
the room' feeling. We are not talking about sexual attraction
here, but something deeper.
It's the same feeling that you might get when you first meet
someone who is destined to become a great friend. Your intuition
tells you that there is some link between you and this person
- like you already know them. There is no desperate desire,
just the feeling that it is right that you should know this
person.
This is the feeling that people describe when they meet their
soul mates. But remember, just because he is a soul mate does
not necessarily mean that he is the right life partner for
you. There are many kinds of soul mate. Sometimes they are
family, sometimes they are just very good friends.
So this intuition by itself is not enough to identify your
Mr Right. If you find he is not available, or not interested
in you, accept it and be friendly. There will be some other
purpose to your getting to know him.
Synchronicity
Synchronicity is the phenomenon of meaningful things happening
together in such a way that they are linked, although one thing
did not cause the other. It is as if there is a pattern to
the events that is showing you that you are going in the right
direction.
If he is the right guy for you, then getting together should
not be too much of a struggle. You will find everything falling
into place as if it was 'meant to be'. If there are obstacles
now and then, they will be overcome; generally, the path is
smooth.
Sometimes you may meet the right person at the wrong time.
Synchronicity is not there and if you try to force a relationship
to happen, it will hit a brick wall. Better to let him go.
If he is your Mr Right, he will come back into your life again
later, when it is the right time for both of you.
Depth
When you get together with Mr Right, of course you will both
fall in love. But most people fall in love often. By itself,
that is not necessarily a recipe for living happily ever after.
Try to look beyond the overwhelming emotion of love and think
about whether this is a person you will still want to live
with when the first rush of love has died down - as it will.
If you find this hard to imagine, consider what you would think
if you and he were friends of yours.
Do you have plenty of interests in common, or are you just
tagging along for his sake? Do you have the same hopes and
expectations of life? Do you have the same attitudes to questions
like job security, insurance and money management? Do you get
along with each other's families and friends?
These points will be important later down the line. All of
them are signs that he is Mr Right - not just the man of the
moment. # # # # #
KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2009
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