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I Just Want a Great Guy, Dammit!
Are
Local Matchmaking Clubs Effective?
Matchmaking is a fine art that’s still practiced.
Whether among ethnic or cultural groups like the matchmaker
made famous from the musical Fiddler on the Roof or the real
life woman who is a matchmaker to millionaires in LA, there’s
another option in matchmaking clubs.
It’s
different than speed dating or singles clubs because the
men are screened and selected to meet certain criteria. In some circles, this kind of service is very expensive yet
popular among highly paid executives and business owners who
don’t have time or patience for the usual pickup places.
They
also value their privacy and don’t want to hang out in bars
or bring people into their lives that aren’t well suited.
The effectiveness varies from great to downright
awful and it’s a fair question to ask before signing up to
find a match
or
be part
of a pool for a potential
match.
The type of matchmaking service that focuses on long term
relationships sets out to introduce you to your future spouse.
They find the person for you that so closely meets your most
important values and beliefs that all you add is the love.
On an informal level, there are other groups that become unofficial
dating pools. Some church singles groups have a large number
of singles who are hoping to find mates. One criticism of all
singles groups is that they tend to have more available women
than men.
For the guys, it’s a buffet, while for the women it’s barely
appetizers. There are community based groups such as Parents
Without Partners where single mothers and single fathers meet
for programs on solo parenting.
In the process, you have a pool of men who are declared to
be singles and who have children. If you’re a member of this
group because you’re also a single parent, then you immediately
know where to find some single men who place a high value on
their parenting roles. That’s exactly the kind of man you hope
to meet.
Posting profiles with a dating service may result in a match.
If the dating service specializes in matching for criteria
that are important to you and not just an ordering service
for the next tall, blue eyed blond, then you might find what
you’re seeking.
There are even specialized dating services such as J-Date
that matches only men and women who take their Jewish faith
and cultural heritage seriously. The dating services are simply
seeking to match you on enough items to make for an interesting
dating opportunity.
They aren’t promising to find the love of your life, that’s
still up to you. But by limiting the dating pool to candidate
who would make suitable spouses, they can be a boon to singles
who are tired of sorting through the masses to try to find
good prospective partners.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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