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I Just Want a Great Guy, Dammit!
What
Do Men Find Attractive In Women?
If you are wondering what men find attractive
in women, there is a very simple answer. You can easily use
this information to make yourself more appealing to the average
man.
Physically, most men find feminine
characteristics attractive
in a woman. This means, they like women who are obviously women.
The way that this is manifest can vary according to the individual
of course and also according to culture, but you do not need
me to tell you that physically the average woman is a different
shape from the average man.
As well as the obvious fact that women have larger breasts
and hips, women also tend to have longer legs in proportion
to their torsos than men, smaller feet, longer slimmer fingers,
less body hair, more body fat, smoother skin and higher and
more arched eyebrows. In most cultures, they also tend to have
longer hair on the head.
So to make yourself more attractive to most men, no matter
what you look like, you simply have to draw attention to or
exaggerate your feminine characteristics. Here are some common
ways that women do this:
- wear
high heels (makes the legs look longer)
- shave
legs and armpits
- do
not be too thin
- wear
makeup (makes the skin look smoother)
- pluck
eyebrows from below if necessary (never from above)
- grow
long hair
- grow
nails (makes fingers look longer)
- wear
clothes and jewelry that society currently considers feminine
You probably already knew that men tend to like women who
do these things! But many people are not aware of the reason
why. It is simply because these things emphasize the difference
between men and women.
The opposite is generally true as well. Women tend to prefer
men who have broad shoulders and narrow hips, some body hair,
more muscle and less fat. Thick, straight eyebrows close over
the eye are usually considered attractive in a man. If you
look at the pictures of models in a magazine you can see all
of these factors being stressed, depending whether the model
is a man or a woman.
Some people believe that men are programmed to be hunters
and this is why they do not like to be chased after, but prefer
to pick out a woman who is not so easy to get. Whether this
is true or not, it is always more rewarding and better for
the self esteem to be around people who like you and want to
be with you. So there is not much point in chasing after a
man who really is not interested in you. The best relationships,
like the best friendships, are always between two people who
both like each other.
Characteristics of personality are harder to generalize about
because fortunately, for every personality type that a woman
can have, there are some men who will find that attractive.
We could say that women tend to be more motherly and caring
than men, therefore most men will like a woman who is caring.
But some men do not want kids and will run a mile from a woman
who seems motherly. Others will feel smothered by a very caring
attitude - they like a more independent minded woman.
So when it comes to personality, the best advice is generally
to be true to yourself and allow the jewels of your own nature
to shine through, without trying to second guess what men find
attractive in women.
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: 2009
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